Wednesday, 11 April 2012

Geniuses & Fools.

I know I said that I was tired in the previous post and that I'm gonna head to bed soon, but there's just some things that I wanna get them off my chest. I just need an outlet to express myself, if you disagree with me, go ahead, just don't pick an internet fight with me.

That's what I feel. There are 2 types of people when it comes to love, one type would be the fools of love, and another would be the masters of love, or you can call them geniuses. Why fools? It's simple. People always say that love is blind, and I wouldn't deny it because I've witnessed it so many times and personally, I've experienced it before too. Love makes us stupid, you do things that you never thought you will do, you give up on things, values and people whom you know you should never give up. You're obsessed, you're blinded, all you see and hear is the special someone who has seemingly took your heart away to the extend that you're ignore and neglect what's good for you. Just take this for example (because it's a real life story that I know of), you've just found out something unpleasant and negative about the one whom you love deeply, and yes, you listened and you'll feel affected. What's the point when you are just gonna listening without reflecting on it and thinking through it? It enters your ear, and after a few seconds, it leaves, it's pointless. You will eventually choose to trust the one you love instead of the one who told you about it, because you're a fool. You trust every single word he/she says, and when it comes to others, like your friends and family, you simply just turn a deaf ear. What can't we be rationale even when we are in love? If this can happen, I believe that there will be lesser people feeling hurt.

Now you may wonder, how am I going to explain on the geniuses of love? Let me explain myself. Some people are smart, especially after they know that you are in love with them, but the main point is, he/she doesn't feel the same way towards you. This is what they will do. They will make use of the feelings you have for them and treat you in the way that seems like they like you back but in fact, it's just a way they want to keep you with them because they are afraid of losing the care and love when you're gone. These people are smart, and of course, selfish. They can ask you to do everything and anything and they will repay you in ways that will result in you falling even deeper into the whole love pit. Yeah, way too smart. This is what I call "playing with others feelings because you are selfish enough to keep them with you when all you treat them as are just friends" or another one would be "playing with others feelings because you are not sure of your own". Smart, but well, it doesn't work well.

I'm not referring to anyone here, I'm just saying what I feel. If you're unhappy, then that's you. If you think I'm being all bias and objective here, I'm sorry.

10 comments:

  1. Accordin 2 ur explanation, r u e genius or e fool?

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    1. I guess I'm neutral, maybe, I'm more towards the fool side.

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    2. O..i tink i m to e fool side 2. wht makes u feel tht u r 2wards e fool side?

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    3. Hmm, because at times, I find myself doing things that I never actually thought I would do, and of course, I end up making silly decisions that obviously would cost me a lot. What about you?

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    4. O..i listen 2 e guy i like n smetimes regrettin it.worse part is coz of him,i dc abt my fam 4 quite sme time.

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    5. It happens. The hormones produced while are in love just makes us do silly things and we are just so overwhelmed by it.

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    6. Btw,since u said u r more 2 fool side,hw u knw abt e genius side?

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    7. I've experienced and witnessed it before that's why.

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  2. U hav bad experience.jy elaine.

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    1. Thank you, ma'am :) do appreciate it. I'm honestly curious about your identity.

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